can anyone help me please

[justmee]

hi all.
i had my 1st misscarriage at 6 weeks and had to have a dnc then i fell pregnant after 1 cycle and at 6.5 weeks i had another mc it took me such a long time to get over it i wondered how it could happen to me 2 times...
this was 9 months ago and me and partner have no started trying again im due on tomorrow but really worried that its going to happen again my friend has told me that my 2nd misscarriage may be due tothe dnc scapping my linning to thin and therefore it wasnt strong enough.does anyone else no aboout this is it true??
im sorry for all the questions i just need to put myself at ease i think...
would really ove to hear from anyone who has had this happen?
xx thankyou aisha
just mee

[EldonAve]

they don't usually scrape the womb anymore
instead they use vacuum aspiration ie suction which is much gentler

[justmee]

im dont live in uk i live in istanbul i havnt herd of a vacuum.i wasnt giving the chioceit was a scrape.

[mistlethrush]

You've given it a reasonable time since that so hopefully all should have settled down OK by now.

[justmee]

i hope so i dont think i will vere relax if i fall pregnant its always at back of my mind and im sure its not good for the baby to be worrying that much 2..

[mistlethrush]

Ds was fine despite me worrying all the way through due to earlier mc and complications - he's now a strapping 4yo!