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not really sure why Im starting this thread but....

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2manychips · 13/02/2009 21:49

went for my 12 week scan today and after seeing baby's heartbeat at the 6 and 8 weeks scans, it wasn't there today.
Having ERPC on tues. I'm so sad..

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Sushipaws · 13/02/2009 21:51

I'm so sorry for you, you must be heartbroken. Have you got someone with you?

Hugs

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2manychips · 13/02/2009 21:53

Dh is here but its so different for them, dont get me wrong he's been great but the PS3 is on now..

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gigglewitch · 13/02/2009 21:53

hugs to you
it's sooo , your poor little angel.

wander over to the emmsys angels thread if you feel up to it, I've only made it there in the last couple of days myself, mc'd last fri. We are all in the same sort of situation, it really helps when people understand where you are at.

anniecam38 · 13/02/2009 21:54

I feel so sad for you, i was in the same position as you 3 weeks ago, no heartbeat at 12 week scan,we,d had scan at 7 weeks and everything fine. Life is just so shit sometimes. Make sure you cry as much as you need to,and get plenty of support both in RL and on here. XX

napa · 13/02/2009 21:54

really sorry, i hope you are being looked after. Hope its ok for you on tues, take it easy over the weekend.

PinkyMinxy · 13/02/2009 21:55

Sorry for your loss, take care.x

gigglewitch · 13/02/2009 21:56

dh will do it in such a different way that you sometimes wonder if you have been in the same time zone.
Keep talking to him - its the only way you can both stay sane ime.

PinkyMinxy · 13/02/2009 21:56

Sorry for your, hugs.x

cmotdibbler · 13/02/2009 21:59

I'm so sorry for your loss.

DH found that playing on his PC meant that he didn't have to think about the mc's and gave him a bit of head space IYKWIM

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2manychips · 13/02/2009 22:07

it really really helps knowing you ladies are there to understand and sympathise. I've been nervous about this preg from start as had earlier mc last year. Then this little one's scan picked up that it and its sac were on the small side, I just never anticipated the sorrow I feel. Thanks everyone.

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gigglewitch · 13/02/2009 22:23

keep on posting over the next few days, whenever you want to, just hang in there. In recent days i've discovered that you/we simply are unable to keep the emotions in - a word to the wise, don't even try.

bitchyfanny · 14/02/2009 00:10

so sorry for your loss 2manychips thinking of you

BumpVLump · 14/02/2009 15:17

You poor thing.
Its always so much harder to take than you ever imagined. Let yourself grieve. Give yourself time. My thoughts are with you

wasabipeanut · 15/02/2009 11:07

I am so sorry to read your news. Thunking of you x

varicoseveined · 16/02/2009 15:41

My sincere condolences to you 2manychips

amelied · 17/02/2009 16:14

So sorry 2manychips - Life is really pants sometimes...

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