I am 28 and have dd 3.6 and ds 22mths. Have had two mc's in 3 cycles (sept 26 and Dec 6)
I am still confused having just read lesley regan's book from cover to cover.
My cycle in between the mcs was 34 days - not sure if this is my 'normal' cycle length as i wasn;t keeping track before ttc again. On both mcs the hpts were -ve until day 34 followed by heavy bleeding exactly 5 days later.
The book says if implantation takes longer than 8-10 days dpo there is a very high chance of early miscarriage or biochemical pregnancy. It seems like this is what may be happening as even based on 34 day cycle that is a 12 day luteal phase.
Assuming hcg isn't detectable (I use first response) until implantation. Anyone have any thoughts?
I know in my heart i am trying to rationalise the irrational and all i can do is keep trying, look at my two beautiful children and be thankful..but somehow i want a reason and hope that it won't happen again.