I saw a heartbeat at 7 weeks, went back 10 days later as had started to bleed and found at the scan that the baby had died.
At this stage I bled for 5 days, but not as heavily as a period and absolute no clots at all. I have had 3 miscarriages in the past so knew to expect heavy bleeding and possibly some pain. Thought the worst was still to come so went into hostital to have medical management. Didn't bleed at all with this so went back a week later to have an erpc. Meanwhile I had cancelled practically everything as was on a bricking myself about the miscarriage happening while I was out and about with toddler in tow. I was a complete basket case during this period.
So now I've just had a call from the hosptital saying that they hadn't removed any foetal tissue in the erpc. They were calling to check I have had a negative pregnancy test (I have) to ensure that they did not miss anything in the erpc. They said I must have passed the sac earlier when I was bleeding. So I basically had two very stressful and painful medical interventions for absolutely nothing. Also, as they didn't have any foetal tissue they can't test it for abnormalities. F*ing, f*ing, f*k.
I feel such an idiot. How could I have not noticed.
I've just had another scan to check for abnormalities in my uterus and the scanner kept asking me if I was still bleeding because she said the uterus lining was still really thick. I guess it's going to come away at some point - af from hell coming up.
Don't really know why I'm posting this. Just feeling crap and stupid.