Looking for experiences after two miscarriages and hope for trying again

[Justagirlttc]

Hoping to hear some shared experiences from people who have gone through this or similar.

i have just found out that I have miscarried for the second time, and I am just so scared about what this means for us moving forward.

my husband and I had been trying for 11 months when we first got pregnant in November 2025. Unfortunately, we lost the baby at around 6 weeks and by the seems of things it was never able to develop a heart beat. We also had a sub chorionic bleed and chorionic bump which probably points to chromosome issues. It was a missed miscarriage so by the time everything was done and I had stopped bleeding it was the middle of February.

we got pregnant the second time pretty quickly after in May, and had a scan at 7w 3d which showed a heart beat, but at our next scan at 11 weeks it showed the pregnancy stopped developing at 8ish weeks.

it’s so hard not to think that this is never going to work out for us right now, or to get over the fear of how long we will be waiting before we get there again.

we are in Northern Ireland too and they only do testing after 3 or when you are a bit older, but I am 30 so fall outside of that.

any stories or good news people could share?

Hi @Justagirlttcso sorry to hear of your miscarriages. It’s incredibly tough.

I have had three missed miscarriages in total. Before that I had one child without issue. I got pregnant again in May and so far, things are ok.

I am in Northern Ireland too and I did ask for investigation as I was 35+ but was rejected until my third MC, so I went private through Kingsbridge to a recurrent miscarriage specialist called Dr Hunter. He is excellent and has his own clinic which is a little cheaper than KB. He ran full checks on me and prescribed me progesterone, aspirin and enoxaparin injections once pregnant. I would highly recommend him - obviously it is early days for me still but I really feel glad I went to him. Best of luck x