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sun84 · 25/04/2026 19:34

So i’m going to sound crazy but here we go

I had a frozen egg transfer in feb but few weeks before that i came down with the worse flu/cough ever
when the clinic rang to say come in i told them i had the worse flu/cough they said that doesnt effect anything
so i had the transfer and i got pregnant

my last pregnant i had a miscarriage at 11 weeks and 6 days

im currently 13 weeks and 3 days but my flu/cough is still ongoing just as bad as it was in feb

ive been to the doctors number of times and they keep saying cant take or do anything and i need to ride it out with lemon/ honey water etc

the thing is i cough soooooo darn hard i feel like im hurting the baby
i have a toddler 18month which im also looking after
carrying etc
i feel so guilty all the time - should i carry him should i not
i’ve had extra scans but how many scans can i have

will this flu/cough last the whole time
am i hurting the baby

any advice will be welcomed

#momguilty
#scared

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sun84 · 25/04/2026 20:07

sorry if i’ve put this in the wrong category

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