Advice after two miscarriages and an ectopic in six months

[BethS1992]

I am after advice please. I have had 2 miscarriages and one ectopic in the last 6 months. Been to the gp today who basically fobbed me off and said I don't fit the criteria for recurrent miscarriage. I've lost each one at 5 weeks and I don't feel these are sporadic in nature. They have referred me to gynae but the wait is about a year, I cannot put my life on hold for a year waiting for that appointment. I have absolutely no idea what to do next and I feel absolutely broken. Has anyone been through anything similar? I've taken folic acid and vitamin d and stopped drinking caffeine etc. thanks

I’m sorry, this is so unfair. I think you should count for referral to early miscarriage clinic, do you have an epu? Did they treat the ectopic with methotrexate? How old are you?

I am just out of d and c for a seven week loss (op at nine weeks as it didn’t pass)

The EPU might be more helpful than gp who sounds rubbish.

if you want to join a ttc after miscarriage support on WhatsApp I can send you link but get you might not want that

I know, I feel really let down 😔 I have a little boy who's 4 now and never struggled with any of this with him. I've just turned 34. Yes was treated with methotrexate, epau were good but they've basically told me they won't do anything until I am 7 weeks and I keep miscarrying at 5 x

Can you get some private testing done? It seems really unfair they won’t test. Have you had a hysteroscopy to look inside your uterus and check all is ok? Xx

@theotherfossilsister would you be able to send me a link to the ttc after loss group? I had a MMC 10 weeks ago at 9 weeks and a 5 week loss in Feb this year. Also have a living 2yo son but lost his twin and lost his brother at 22 weeks before that. I have a complex pregnancy history and not getting any support from my doctors. Have been referred to recurrent miscarriage clinic but it is a 6 month wait where I live and I’m longing to be pregnant again! Came off all my social media after my recent loss but could do with support from people in a similar boat.

@Luciechapman you'd be better to start your own threat as this one is a few weeks old and people will answer the OP and not your post. Hope you get some replies

Sorry @Luciechapman.i didn't read your post properly. You were looking for a link.