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Having second miscarriage, please tell me positive stories

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Loubylous · 13/03/2026 02:54

Currently in hospital after experiencing severe (labour like) contractions and clots at 12 weeks pregnant, have yet to be scanned but I know it’s a miscarriage. I do have a healthy 18 month old but before her I had another miscarriage at 8/9 weeks too. I feel so worried that the fact I’ve had two miscarriages now means I will not be able to have another child, as it seems like it must be more than just bad luck but as though there is some underlying issue - but it could be anything and I don’t know how you’d go about finding out what. Just feeling very, very low.

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 13/03/2026 04:40

I'm so sorry. It's a horrible, horrible feeling.
Sending you and your baby love. 💙🩷

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raspberrysparkles · 13/03/2026 06:13

Hello, I have had two miscarriages and I have two sons. I sometimes wonder if I couldn’t carry a daughter. I am sorry … it is so tough, despite having a lovely family I felt so alone and so very sad. But it is no indication that you won’t have another healthy pregnancy as far as i know. Daffodil

Loubylous · 13/03/2026 06:37

Thanks all. Placenta has came out now so although I’ve not been scanned they confirmed that it’s a loss. Honestly the contractions I had were so horrific and truly akin to labour.

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 13/03/2026 19:54

Just checking on you @Loubylous 💛💐

ToddlerMumma · 13/03/2026 20:33

I have 2 lovely kids but had a miscarriage before both of them.
my first pregnancy ended in miscarriage and I only found out at my 12 week scan. I went on to get pregnant 3 months later. I had my 2nd miscarriage at about 8 weeks but got pregnant the very next month. I was waiting to get my period and it never came. You’re very fertile after a miscarriage.
sorry this has happened to you x

OneDayHope · 14/03/2026 17:28

2 miscarriages, then a baby girl. They’re sadly a lot more common than we realise. Odds are so in your favour even though it might not feel it right now.

Take care and wishing you all the best for the future 💐

LittleLemonPie · 22/03/2026 11:54

I’m so sorry your going through this @Loubylous ❤️

I have had 2 miscarriages over the last 2 and half years, for us 3rd time lucky was our little double rainbow 🌈 he’s 5 weeks old now, was 5 years of ttc.

It’s so so hard, but it does not mean that you wont go on to have a successful pregnancy in the future. Do not lose hope 💕 take your time to heal ❤️‍🩹 sending you lots of love x

Superscientist · 23/03/2026 10:14

I have had 4 pregnancies. My daughter followed by two miscarriages and then I had my son

I had the miscarriages both at 10 weeks in August and December 2024. I then fell pregnant in January 2025 before having a period and didn't find out until nearly 8 weeks. He is now 6 months and sleeping on me

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