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Healing after miscarriage

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Motherofthreewildboys · 15/12/2024 10:55

Hello, I was just wondering if anyone has been through similar and how did they manage/ cope. So I miscarried my 4th (was a surprise baby) all my emotions want another baby but I know that won't happen as my partner doesn't want anymore. He didn't want a 4th, so I know it's definitely off the cards. I just know I'll always want a 4th now. Thank you.

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CustardCream31 · 17/12/2024 09:41

Morning, not been through similar as such, but I understand the yearning for another one and having a loss....
Is your husband 100% against it, even after sitting down and discussing how you feel? Is it for financial/emotional/other reason he wouldn't want a 4th?
I hope someone with similar experiences can come along and offer advise and empathy soon Flowers

Motherofthreewildboys · 22/12/2024 20:24

Yes he's really against another although everything is quite fresh as it has only been 2 weeks. I mean in time I might even change my mind as the miscarriage has scarred me. The 4th baby was a surprise baby and he was really unhappy about it so I know 100% he wouldn't try for another. I think it's more so because I had planned having 4 children next year so probably going to find next year bitter sweet. Thank you for replying.

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