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Molar pregnancy - please tell me your positive stories! I need cheering up...

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Habbibu · 24/04/2008 15:31

Just back from hospital - test results after EPRC showed partial molar pregnancy. Tired, fed up and in need of good news stories. Please!

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hairtwiddler · 21/05/2008 20:49

this one It's not even my thread! I am a thread stealer, and not a very good one at that.

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Habbibu · 21/05/2008 20:51

You going for the boot camp approach?

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AitchTwoCiao · 21/05/2008 20:54

oh fucky bollocks, habs. sorry i didn't see your update earlier (MN really need to sort out 'threads i'm on' imo). nothing to say really, is there, just that i hope that on the paradigm of 'it's not as good as it could be' i hope it is as good as it can be.

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Habbibu · 21/05/2008 21:00

Thanks, Aitch - I guess it could now be worst case scenario (ie chemo), but that is really not a terrible thing - just dispiriting and saddening, and realising that it really could be up to 2 years before we get to try again.

On the plus side, you and ht have my blessing to hijack this thread for potty training chat...

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hairtwiddler · 21/05/2008 21:10

Glad to see Aitch along to cheer you up too! PC crashed as I was just asking for help to avoid you being drawn into my poo obsession. I know you're not quite so scatalogically obsessed.
Hope it's not chemo treatment Hab.

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AitchTwoCiao · 21/05/2008 21:12

aye, well i don't want dispiriting and saddening for you, i reject it out of hand. i want lovely and kind and miraculous. but i'll tolerate 'not as bad as it could be', i suppose.

i will investigate the potty training as we've had an oddly unsuccessful day so i'm wondering if we have a rebellion on our hands. by the way, lapin was looking for places in italy to stay and i mentioned you had your very own castello...

i want this to work out beautifully for you, you know. it would be right, i feel.

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Posey · 21/05/2008 21:15

Sorry, didn't mean to disappear. Ds fell at school today and has sprained his ankle. He doesn't do pain well and had to go and give lots of cuddles and get him back to sleep.

Glad your dh will be there for you tomorrow. Nothing particularly helpful to say really, just sending good vibes and trying to think of a good joke to make you smile.

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Habbibu · 21/05/2008 21:23

ht - it's after 9! How have you defeated the cunning technological wiles of MrTwiddler? And yes, actually, keep your poo talk away from me. I know you and your kind.
Aitch - that's most kindly positive of you, but I guess if it's going to be bad then I want to know Now. And it doesn't always happen to us, you know - we had an increased risk of NTDs after dd1, but LittleHab is so fine it's scary. So there, odds. . Where's lapin asking? Can't find it.
Posey - poor DS! Am sending sympathetic whimpers to him. Bath, bed and book soon, I think. DD has been saying "Tummy sore" for a day or so, so tomorrow could be a right old NHS-fest...

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hairtwiddler · 21/05/2008 21:26

Ah yes - Mr Twiddler took pity on me some weeks ago and lifted my 9pm mn block. I haven't hoovered the stairs since.

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hairtwiddler · 21/05/2008 21:27

Just realised Mr Twiddler is a less than complimentary title!

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AitchTwoCiao · 21/05/2008 21:28

littlehab imo comes right under lovely and kind and miraculous, or at least i feel dd does. More of that, please!

i think she may have mentioned it on another thread, or possibly even via the electronic mail . if you see her around you could tout your pasta stories at her and see if she bites. (the greedy beggar will, i bet).

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Habbibu · 21/05/2008 21:28

OK - I'm going to bed with book. HT - will call you tomorrow.
Thanks so much, all - will update as soon as I have news.

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AitchTwoCiao · 21/05/2008 21:32

what time's the app? i will watch the clock and send zingy positive thoughts at the appropriate moment. (usually about 20 mins after the app due to start if it's NHS )

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Habbibu · 21/05/2008 21:35

Don't know - have to phone first thing. NW pretty great about this stuff, tbh. Will let you know. Thanks, Aitch - means a lot.

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AitchTwoCiao · 21/05/2008 21:36

do let me know. i will scrunch up my face like Hiro Nakamura.

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Posey · 21/05/2008 21:38

Have a good sleep. Hope tomorrow is okay. Will be sending good vibes.

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Habbibu · 22/05/2008 09:21

Ok - spoke to NW. At the moment they think it may be retained product, though whether that means another EPRC or Methotrexate I don't know. hcg levels are up. Appointment for a scan at 3pm with Dr A, which is good - scan dept are fab, and know us well... Will update you later.

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AitchTwoCiao · 22/05/2008 09:28

fingers crossed it's erpc. i've had metho, tbh it does take it out of you, whatever they say. will squish eyes together hopefully at 3pm on your behalf.

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Habbibu · 22/05/2008 09:45

Plus side of metho, though, is that it's also used for psoriasis, so could kill 2 birds with 1 stone... . You can give me the gen on metho later if that's what they say.

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hazeyjane · 22/05/2008 09:47

Habbibu, good luck on your scan, I had retained product when i had a molar pregnancy, and had 2 d&c's, unfortunately I went on to methotrexate eventually, because my hcg levels were so high, and the mp was persistant. I'll be thinking of you this afternoon, good luck.

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hairtwiddler · 22/05/2008 09:50

Good Luck Hab. Hope you're doing something nice as a family until 3pm.

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Habbibu · 22/05/2008 12:05

Well, we've been to Todders, LittleHab is having lunch and will, with any luck, sleep soon. hazeyjane - may well be picking your brains for info and advice soon!

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Posey · 22/05/2008 13:22

Good luck for this afternoon Hab.

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AitchTwoCiao · 22/05/2008 14:44

...already thinking of you, will build to a thinking crescendo over the next hour...

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AitchTwoCiao · 22/05/2008 15:05
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