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Is this my baby ?

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Goshidgaf · 17/04/2024 00:21

I have an appointment with a nurse tomorrow, but I can't sleep. Please, if someone could please verify before then I will love you 4eva.

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Beyondbeliefsometimes · 17/04/2024 00:30

Hi OP I'm afraid I'm not qualified to answer your question but I didn't want to not answer. I'm thinking of you as I can réad the stress and anxiety from your post. It might help others who may know more, to also know how far along in pregnancy you are.

Missmoo123 · 17/04/2024 00:36

I'm sorry you are feeling this way. How far along are you? Just to try and give you some hope and a hand hold- I had alot of bleeding when I was 9 weeks pregnant with my second baby. It was like a full on period and wouldn't stop. I believed that I had a MC and went to hospital where the ultrasound showed that the baby was fine and higher up in my uterus and showed me where the bleed was coming from. It was just one of those things and it stopped by itself. I know when I sometimes have a period I have clumps of tissue similar to what you have shown in the picture. I hope it works out for you x

FakeMiddleton · 17/04/2024 00:38

When I had an abortion, the nurse told me to look out for something that looked like a plum stone.

How big is that mass and is it hard?

shellyleppard · 17/04/2024 00:41

Op what have been your symptoms??? Have you had a lot of cramps and pain?? How far along are you . Sending hugs x

Goshidgaf · 17/04/2024 09:03

FakeMiddleton · 17/04/2024 00:38

When I had an abortion, the nurse told me to look out for something that looked like a plum stone.

How big is that mass and is it hard?

The photo I attached was on a piece of standard toilet paper, so yeah, just slightly bigger than the size of a bean ? It was hard. I also had a LOT of bleeding beforehand, and passed (gushed) some tissue. Then, 2 days later, I passed this.

I hope you're doing okay x

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Goshidgaf · 17/04/2024 09:15

Plenty of cramps. My body also has changed. I usually have no period pains - usually some pain on the back of my knees. My periods have been irregular as of late (past 3/4 months), I thought this was my period, but I know my body, I know this was different. Gosh, I wasn't even trying for a baby, but now it's aaaalllll I can think about.

Thank you so, so much for your kind words. X

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shellyleppard · 17/04/2024 09:17

Good luck with the nurse/hospital today. You are in my thoughts x

Goshidgaf · 17/04/2024 09:19

shellyleppard · 17/04/2024 09:17

Good luck with the nurse/hospital today. You are in my thoughts x

Thank you so, so much. X.

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shellyleppard · 17/04/2024 09:21

🍀💐🍀💖

FakeMiddleton · 17/04/2024 10:12

Glad you've got your appt today so you can get info either way. Best of luck

Cariadxx · 17/04/2024 10:25

The not knowing its so stressful. My gut instinct was always right though so don't dismiss yourself.
Best wishes for today

NCgoingdry · 17/04/2024 10:26

Sorry Op, it does look almost identical to my miscarriage.

Hope you're ok.

FakeMiddleton · 17/04/2024 18:45

Thinking of you, OP.

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