One living child 6 miscarriages ttc positive stories wanted

[Kiki250]

So had my daughter 12 years ago waters broke at 33 weeks born at 34 weeks , had coil in for 9 years removed it when after getting into a new relationship after 2 years when we decided to ttc,
🌟June 2021🌟fell pregnant quickly after and went for early scan seen heartbeat at 6 weeks no problems started bleeding at 11 weeks turned out baby stopped growing at 7 weeks (shortly after seeing heartbeat)
🌟April 2022🌟 tried again ended after a week in chemical
🌟May 2022🌟 fell again and seen heartbeat at 7 weeks week later started bleeding and spontaneously miscarried by time I went to Epu it was gone
🌟september 2023🌟another chemical
🌟went on the pill for a few months to mentally recover came off it early January 2023 started aspirin this time.
🌟Feb 2023🌟fell again resulted in chemical after one week
🌟May 2023🌟went for reassurance scan at 8 weeks was a sac but nothing in it (blighted ovum)

finally was referred for testing had a phone meeting followed by an appointment for end of October.
had a full pelvic scan and HSG all clear
Have been prescribed aspirin & progesterone if I test positive currently in the TWW but I’m terrified.. any positive stories recommendations would be greatly appreciated I’m in Ireland 🇮🇪

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1 child, 5 (7 total) miscarriages here.
10 year gap between mine.(2 mcs before i got my 1st child)
By some fluke and miracle I got my 2nd baby.

Not the same but another perspective…my DH is the only child from a similar situation. Lots of awful miscarriages either side of his birth. His mum still talks about it but she has processed it all (so not traumatised) and 40 odd years later he (and his mum) are perfectly happy and doing just fine. Good luck but even if doesn’t work out I hope you can find peace

I’m almost there, but at the same time not relaxed at all.

I’m currently 33 weeks pregnant, my 8th pregnancy and I have one child. I lost one pregnancy at 20 weeks. Sending you lots of unmumsnet hugs. Also took 10 years to ttc dc, and 7 years to get to this point in this pregnancy.

I just wanted to add, I really couldn’t come away with peace. If you are able to find it/reach it with one then that’s also good.

Im sorry you’re going through this. I can share my positive story - had my second DC at 41 after having x3 miscarriages, a living DC and then a later loss at 17 weeks. Progesterone and aspirin helped me (I also needed blood thinner injections). Second DC was all the more surprising as it had taken me 6 years to conceive DC and this time we weren’t even trying and I was almost a decade older than when I first started ttc.

Good luck.

March 2010 started TTC.
Dec 2015 MC at 16 weeks.
March 2017 MC at 6 weeks.
Jan 2018 MC at 10 weeks.
August 2018 MC at 8 weeks.
Oct 2018 MC at 6 weeks.
November 17th 2018 conceived DC1, born Aug 2019.
Rainbow baby x1000 and 9 years in the making.
(I won't add the story of DC2 here)

I really hope you get yours soon. 🌈

I had a mc, then DD (4yo) then five losses, one of which was an ectopic. All very similar stages to you. With the last loss I was on aspirin and progesterone but still no dice.

When I was 16w with DS (5mos) I was diagnosed with antiphospholipid syndrome. This is an immune condition which makes your blood clot more easily. They don’t know exactly how it relates to recurrent mc but the theory is the clots might hinder the development of the placenta. I was on daily blood thinner jabs and aspirin for the rest of the pregnancy and for six weeks after his birth. They also picked up through weekly scans that DS was measuring small which can be a feature of APS, so I was brought in for a section at 37w.

I really, really hope you have a good support network around you and get some good news soon