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TTC rainbow baby

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LM88 · 25/08/2023 06:22

Hi all,

just as the title says - I had a late miscarriage at 19 weeks.
TTC again, 3rd cycle since and AF arrived yday! I am gutted.
You dont actually realise how hard it is to get everything right to get pregnant. I didnt want to become obsessed by it but feels like I should now because it hasnt happened. My age is also not on
my side 😩 - Hopefully I get
my rainbow baby.

Rant over!

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Hollycharlie · 25/08/2023 08:36

@LM88 hi hun, I m sorry for your loss. I had a mmc at 10 wks and finally lost everything lost Friday 18/8. It’s just awful isn’t it. We started trying again this week no waiting as age is also not on my side I’m 42 🤯hate to say it 🙈don’t feel it though. It’s just so difficult to work out when and if ovulation is going to happen; when to count first day of period was it the day of spotting losing baby or day that a lot of blood started passing, I feel I’m getting obsessed with google looking for answers. It’s just a horrible position to be in. I absolutely feel your pain and frustrations. X

LM88 · 26/08/2023 07:23

@Hollycharlie aw im so sorry for your loss! Its hard to navigate through everything isnt it. Hopefully it happens for us both soon! X

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Silverfoxlady · 26/08/2023 16:33

Sorry for your loss.

I am trying to conceive too after finding out I had a missed miscarriage at 12 weeks. It was heartbreaking. It took long to get pregnant last year (8 months) and time is not on my side either at 43 years old.

It took so long to conceive (and I was a little obsessed) that time that I feel like an expert, everything from LH levels to mucus consistency and positions to try. So fingers crossed this will help this time round 🙂

Good luck, and I hope it works for us.

Hollycharlie · 27/08/2023 08:58

@LM88 thank you and good luck for us all going forward. Xx

@Silverfoxlady I’m so sorry to hear this. Ours was a surprise so I’ve not idea how long it’ll take us. All I keep hearing is we’re more fertile after one so I’m putting all my eggs in one basket there. Fingers crossed for good news for us all soon. Keep us posted ladies. Xx

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