Hi,
Is anyone else ttc after a mc where they haemorrhaged? This happened to me last year when I had a mmc at 11 weeks, and almost died as I lost so much blood before they got me to resuss and then I had emergency surgery and blood transfusions.
I took a long time to feel able to try to get pregnant again but was told the chance of it happening again if I miscarried again was no higher than for anyone else.
Sadly I found out last week at 7 weeks that the baby had stopped growing at 5 weeks. I thought because it was a bit earlier it might be more like a normal period. But yesterday I ended up in hospital again with the same scenario, massive blood loss etc. I didn't get to the same point as last year because I managed to get to hospital and be seen quickly enough, but it was still very scary.
I can't find any stories of people continuing to try to conceive after this. I know people do carry on trying after all sorts of awful things have happened, after stillbirth or much later losses than mine. I just feel I'm putting my life at risk each time. I wondered if anyone else has been through this. I'm sorry if this isn't the right place to post and hope I haven't said anything wrong (I'm ND and feel very anxious about posting). Thanks so much for reading this.