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Mmc? Third miscarriage

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Bee111xxxx · 09/02/2023 20:01

Has anyone else had three miscarriages and just starting to lose all hope :( today after seeing a heartbeat at 6 weeks and 1 day I was scanned and measured 8 weeks + 6 days but no heartbeat. Am devastated to say the least just don’t know how to move forward.

have been asked to decided what management to take in the next 24 hours any advice tips?

ive no cramping or bleeding but was confirmed with a second sonographer😭

I was also on cylogest 800mg daily with this pregnancy. Just feel so deflated.

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jackstini · 09/02/2023 23:15

So sorry to hear this - it's the most horrible feeling when they turn to you and tell you

I had a MMC, finding out at the 12 week scan
Waited to see if it would happen naturally but it didn't and I had a D&C

2 months later a positive, but lost 5 days later

4 months after that though another positive, and ds is upstairs in bed

Usually after 3 MC they will do some tests for common reasons, like Lupus for example. It may be something treatable

This happened to a friend and she was then able to prevent further MC with daily injections. She had 2 healthy babies after

Have you got people around you to take care of you. Understand your partner may be upset too but dealing with it in a different way so other friends can be good to talk to

Thinking of you

Wannabeamummybad · 16/02/2023 16:44

I am so sorry to hear what you are going through. I'm afraid I cannot help as I have no clue (just had my first pregnancy and first mmc) but just wanted to send some positive thoughts your way. x

Patchworksack · 16/02/2023 16:52

I’m so sorry. You should be able to get recurrent miscarriage testing this time - ask for referral to local RMC unit but often GP can get the blood tests rolling for you a lot quicker. You can also ask for genetic testing of ‘products’ (sorry I know that is a horrible term) which might influence whether you go for surgical or medical management.
I had 4 MMC all at about the 10 week mark and eventually got answers from the implantation clinic at Coventry (Prof Siobhan Quenby) and then had a successful pregnancy. The RMCtheeads on here are a lifesaver and I’m still in touch with a lot of the women I met there.
Very gentle hugs at a crappy time for you.

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