Mmc at 9+4 weeks

[Jluna]

Hi, sorry for long post.

My very first pregnancy resulted in mmc.

I had 2 kidney infections in first 3 weeks and again at 4weeks. I then started bleeding at 5 weeks so was seen in EPU.

At 5weeks my hcg was 3000. Nothing on internal ultrasound except gestational sac. At 6 weeks i had a yolk sac on US scan. But slow progress so i was told its just too early your dates must be wrong. At 8weeks scan showed a feotus with no heartbeat but had to wait for confirmation so 9 week scan confirmed no bloodflow or heartbeat. I had my mmc at 9+4 weeks. Baby had not developed passed 6weeks gestation. This was back in Nov '21.

I had an MVA which was aweful. Had my AF in beginning December and so have been ttc since.

Got a feeling i might have conceived again already but really cant be sure as too early to test.

Im petrified its going to happen again

Didn’t want to read and run. I was diagnosed as having had a MMC on Friday - currently waiting for my EPU app on Wednesday for next steps.

Just giving you a hand hold that I understand 💐

@MrsMo21
So sorry for your loss...such a heartbreaking thing to go through.

We can only help each other through. Also trust me when I say that you are a lot stronger than you think you will be...

X

Hand hold from me too, I found out I had a MMC on Thursday and have an appointment tomorrow to confirm. Sending love to you both @Jluna @MrsMo21

@Maybepossibly22 I’ll be thinking of you today x

So i tested very faint pos on a strip test, 2 days later 1-2 weeks on digital clearblue. I then tested again with strip test another 2 days hoping for a pos but was neg. Why would a digital say pregnant 1-2 and all the rest neg?
Went to dr and he doing hcgb blood test to confirm but im so worried ive lost this one too.....should get results in a day or so

@Jluna so sorry to hear this. It could’ve been a chemical - they’re heartbreaking x

@MrsMo21... currently im not holding much hope for a positive blood test to be honest. Its the hardest thing waiting...

So started bleeding yesterday and has got slightly heavier today with clots varying from dark almost black to dark red.... i think this pregnancy has ended but i now need to play the damned waiting game again to find out.

Confirmed 2nd miscarriage....devastated....despite my age and health issues they still expect me to have a third miscarriage before they investigate why i cant carry.....

Dont know if i can cope.

Any one else had a missed miscarriage followed by a natural miscarriage and then managed to have a live birth?

So sorry for your loss.
My friend had a missed miscarriage at 12 weeks then a natural miscarriage at 5 weeks, followed by full term birth. I’ve also had 2 miscarriages to be followed by a full term birth. Unfortunately it’s so common but never makes any loss easy. Amongst our group of friends everyone has a different story of infertility/miscarriage/pregnancy
Fingers crossed for you. X