Hi guys, I’ve been a lurker and found threads so useful but never posted. I’m hoping someone might have advice or experience with ectopic pregnancy.
In August I found out I was pregnant, but it was odd because it didn’t show positive until 2 days after I missed my period. Few days later had spotting, so went to hospital and they couldn’t see anything in the ultrasound and my beta was at 81 at 5 weeks so probably a miscarriage. They told me to come back and check my beta, I did 3 days later and it was at 88 so they diagnosed me with a miscarriage as I’d started bleeding as well. I was concerned that it had gone up slightly and said I was really worried about an ectopic and they reassured me it was not.
10 days later did a follow up beta to confirm miscarriage, but meanwhile pregnancy tests kept getting darker and my boobs were sore so I was really worried and told the midwife this but she dismissed me and gave me advice on getting pregnant again (!) Next day they called me saying beta was at 600 so I went to the ER to get another ultrasound and possibly methotrexate. They saw a hemmoragic cyst on my right ovary but nothing else. Beta was around 840. They still said it might be viable and dismissed my concerns, I went in again 2 days later for more beta and it had gone to 1200 something. Still nothing but the cyst was seen and they wouldn’t give me methotrexate.
Finally the next day the OB at the original practice called and asked if I had gotten the injection yet, I said the hospital kept refusing so she advised me to go back and have them call her. Beta was almost 1700 at that point and nothing but the cyst was seen on the ultrasound. I begged them to give me methotrexate at this point because I was so scared so they finally did and after another dose my hcg finally went to zero around a month later.
I don’t have any of the risk factors and this was my third pregnancy-first was a termination at 8 weeks and second was a missed miscarriage discovered at 8 weeks, baby died about a week or so before. So I know my tubes worked fine twice before in the recent past. I’d like to try again but I’m so scared of another ectopic.
Has anyone had this happen before? Is it normal not to be able to locate the ectopic?
Sorry for the novel and thanks so much for taking the time to read xxxx