How soon shall I wait ttc after miscarriage?

[pureofmind]

Hi everyone! Hope all is well!
I'm 34 and have dc.
In January this year I had a termination due to medial issues and bled for a few months after my ovulation/periods returned in May and
I got pregnant again in in July. I sadly had a miscarriage last week and I'm devastated. I was 5 weeks. Im in the obese bmi category even though I'm not massive. I've been through lots of stress and anxiety lately too and I know I need to lose weight and cut out the stress
Etc
I know I haven't really got over the first loss and this one has floored me too my partner want to wait til after our hol next summer to try again but all I want to do is TTC again as I will
Be 35 then n worry.
I no I have to lose a few stone too first. Z

Sorry to read this. Don't beat yourself up by believing that weight or anxiety are the most likely cause. It was very early and almost certainly nothing you could have done differently.
Only you know when it's right to try again. Medically, I was told to wait one cycle although that's usually just to help you date - there isn't any good evidence that it's any riskier to try again soon.
But if you want to make some lifestyle changes first then throw yourself into that.
Good luck whatever you decide
Xx