Missed Miscarriage

[Fayezp1210]

Hi, this is my first post here and not something I expected to talk about but would like to hear from other people who have gone through the same.

We went for our 12 week scan on Monday to be told there was no heartbeat and baby had stopped growing around 9 and a half weeks. Heartbroken is an understatement, especially because we had two earlier scans where the heart was beating and the baby was jumping about.

I had the surgical procedure first thing Tuesday morning but I just can’t get my head around what has happened, every time I close my eye to try and sleep it just keeps playing back in my head. I just don’t understand why, and I don’t know how I’m going to get through this?

My Partner has been amazing and if anything it has brought us closer together.

Everyone including the nurses at the hospital have been saying it’s just one of those things, and you can try again but even the thought of trying again and having this happen again just fills me with terror.

Just looking to hear other people’s experiences and how you have dealt with it.

Thank you x

Hey Faye,

Thanks for replying 🤍 I didn’t get notified of this message. I was truly heartbroken after finding out.

I have used different tests. Clear blue showed a very faint line a week ago. It says I ovulated on Sunday using clear blue but presume it picked up pregnancy hormones... I’m so unsure! So we DTD as we read that you can ovulate before your next period and new research suggests it poses no risk. I’m due my period in 2 weeks if it’s expected after 4 weeks of a D&C, so we will wait and see...

Congratulations on your pregnancy!💐✨🌈 it gives me hope we may fall pregnant again quickly! Sending lots of positivity your way xxx

I’m sending lots of positivity your way!

Same here, I was absolutely devastated! We had already had a few early scans and all was well, I think that made it hurt even more in my opinion.

I hope these 2 weeks go quickly for you and you get the result you want, thank you. I was really shocked it had happened so soon for us! I feel really nervous though but I’m sure that’s to be expected!

💕🌸