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Miscarriage/pregnancy loss

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Struggling

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Marcusbecus · 17/07/2019 00:04

Had 3 miscarriages, devastated to find out number 3 was a boy and trisomy 18 (Edwards) from the test they did on the pregnancy tissue... all three first trimester, currently the other half is pregnant with the 4thand we have scans every 2 weeks planned. 6w3d heartbeat - joy! 8w2d shitting myself about what will happen tomorrow...

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Paige26x · 17/07/2019 00:14

So sorry to hear that but try stay positive even though it’s hard, you should be excited going to your baby’s scan but obviously totally get your situation.. a miracle is at the end of all bad things.. fingers crossed for you both, everything should be perfect

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Marcusbecus · 17/07/2019 00:20

Thanks, I need that kind of positivity in my life as I asked the other half what would she want to do if there was no heartbeat tomorrow... (context we were discussing a bad scan, not just me asking out of the blue)

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Marcusbecus · 17/07/2019 00:21

I just feel horrible... she went to bed, I am drinking... and I have not discussed my feelings with anyone throughout all the miscarriages

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