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2nd miscarriage

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chloeemma · 08/07/2019 17:21

I was over the moon when I conceived again 3 months after my first mc.
I'm now 6/7 weeks pregnant and have heavy bleeding.
I'm not in any pain or discomfort apart from I feel like I have trapped wind. The blood is bright red but no clots. My lower stomach hurts to touch.
I'm going for a scan tomorrow. Any chance I'm not having a miscarriage?
I'm absolutely devastated. Iv been so careful 😭

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barnyb · 08/07/2019 17:29

Hello lovely. I'm so sorry your having this possibly again. I have had two miscarriages in the last 12 months and I remember when the second happened and I couldn't believe it happened again. It was a huge blow. I only know of pregnancy's going wrong so I'm sorry I can't give you any happy story which involves heavy bleeding and a baby at the end of it. But I just want to say I'm sorry. Try and not to stress and worry too much because if everything is ok, then the stress won't be any good for baby. Good luck tomorrow xxx

chloeemma · 09/07/2019 18:37

Thank you for your words. I'm so sorry to hear about your mc :(

My bleeding is slowing up and going brown in colour now. Apparently I'm having a threatened miscarriage.
Scan today shows that the baby is still there. Very small considering the dates and no heartbeat. The sac is slightly irregular also :( and a lot of blood surrounding it.
Another scan next week to confirm if the baby has just stopped developing or I'm earlier in the pregnancy than the dates. I think it's bad news. But they don't want to confirm miscarriage just yet. ☹️

It's just so heartbreaking. Will I ever have children 😭

xx

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barnyb · 09/07/2019 21:40

@chloeemma
Oh no I'm so sorry. I had a similar situation with my 2nd.
I had a mini electric shock at work and I was 5 weeks roughly and went to have a scan to make sure all ok. They said only can see sac and yolk and too early so come back in two weeks. I went back and nothing had developed further and then I had bleeding etc. I was just so heartbroken and I thought there must be something wrong with me! I'm currently having tests done and now have fallen pregnant again mid testing. Just because I'm pregnant again doesn't mean I'm out of the woods. I don't feel 100% and I just keeping wondering when it's all going to stop again. Unfortunately it does happen. And we have been the unlucky ones. I also think it happens to more women then we know. it's not fair. I'm constantly looking at people jealous and wondering why YOU!!!! Do let me know what happens xxx

barnyb · 11/07/2019 06:43

Hello lovely any updates? How are you feeling

chloeemma · 11/07/2019 18:39

Miscarriage has started :(

Had cramps last night. Passing loads of clots, tissue today. And pains and cramps.
Life just isn't fair :( xx

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nicannie · 11/07/2019 18:42

I'm so sorry to hear what ur going through for the 2nd time @chloeemma - sending u hugs n prayers 😞

barnyb · 13/07/2019 20:45

@chloeemma hello lovely how are you??

chloeemma · 16/07/2019 18:09

Had a scan today to make sure everything was out. And yes my body has literally shed everything ☹️
Bleeding started Monday and miscarriage happened Friday.
Iv practically stopped bleeding whereas my last one lasted a good two weeks.
It's just not fair is it ☹️
They literally said there is nothing wrong with me just some very bad luck for two in a row.
But it makes me so scared to try again and have the exact same happen. Part of me wants to and part of me says wait until next year your body's been through enough.
I just miss feeling pregnant and everything 😭

I wish you the best of luck for the future. ❤️💜🧡💛

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KindleAndCake · 16/07/2019 18:25

Hi there, I'm so sorry this has happened to you. I was you, a few years ago, I had 2 miscarriages, then started bleeding with the 3rd, he was a sticky bean though and held on. Hes a strapping wee boy now. I just wanted to give you some hope Flowers

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