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Miscarriage and first period

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Laceygabriella · 24/06/2019 19:08

Hi everyone I had a miscarriage and d&c 6 weeks and 3 days ago. I started my period on Thursday but by yesterday (Sunday) it had stopped. Is this normal? I was told that the first period would be really heavy and probably last longer. But it wasn't massively heavy and lasted 3 days. I want to try for a baby but I have no idea if my cycle has returned normally now.

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ilovetrees30 · 24/06/2019 19:16

My first period after my miscarriage at 5.5 weeks was no different from my normal periods. However ever since my miscarriage my cycles have been all over the place but they were regular like clockwork before.

So sorry you've been through a miscarriage too.

Laceygabriella · 24/06/2019 19:19

I'm so sorry for your loss. I am so worried that there's something wrong with me as normally my period would last 5/6 days. I'm sure it's normal for your periods to be a little off for a while. It's just so hard. Bitter sweet having a period at all. Hope you're okay. X

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Bumpingalong84 · 26/06/2019 08:37

Hi, I had a mmc (at 12wks) in May. I started my first period 4 weeks later and bled for 11days and it was mostly brown spotting, nothing really majorly heavy. Not like my normal at all. So think it just takes the body a while to adjust, Ive just start doing ovulation test and I’m hoping I’ll get a positive in the next week or so Confused but who knows.

You are right tho, it is bitter sweet getting a period. Good luck.

Laceygabriella · 26/06/2019 12:30

I was the same. Found out I'd miscarried on May 7th. I was 12 +2. So I know exactly how you feel. I'm so sorry this happened to you too. I'm going to start doing ovulation tests and just hoping that something will happen soon. Praying for us both ❤️

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Bumpingalong84 · 12/07/2019 22:26

@Laceygabriella sorry to hear you’ve been through it all too. Horrible experience.

How did you get on. I’m waiting for second AF to turn up now! Think I had a positive ovulation on the 4th but only gave it one shot so not expecting anything plus it was a cheapy one so might not even have been positive 🙈

eastview · 12/07/2019 22:34

Thank you @Bumpingalong84 ! How are you feeling? I'm exactly the same. Using cheapie ovulation tests and have a quite strong one on the 4th too! So it's just a waiting game now. Fingers crossed for us 🤞💋

eastview · 12/07/2019 22:38

This is the app I use @Bumpingalong84 blue shows fertile days and red shoes AF. it's called flo I really recommend
It it seems to be accurate for me anyway and I got pregnant straight away using it last time! An add your symptoms, when you do the deed and add when you do tests too! I did an ovulation test on the 3rd as that was when it predicted but then changed to the 4th as that's when it was strongest. We gave it out best shot anyway 😂🤞

eastview · 12/07/2019 22:39

Sorry forgot pic 🤦‍♀️

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Bumpingalong84 · 13/07/2019 08:30

Ahh on the same day then @eastview! We didn’t cover the week so I’m not feeling hopeful but I’m ok with that. I’m having some brown spotting again so hoping AF is on the way and it’ll be more like a normal AF as last one wasn’t.

I’m feeling ok about everything really. Hard to think should have had 20wk scan by now! But I have a 3 yr old DD and we were fortunate to fall pregnant easily so I’m hoping it’ll happen again quickly.

How are you feeling?

Bumpingalong84 · 13/07/2019 08:32

This is the stick I had on the 4th! It’s the strongest i’d had. We only did it that night so like I say not holding out much hope. But once AF arrives I’ll try the clearblue sticks again this month

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SunStruck · 14/07/2019 03:26

I could have written this post, @Bumpingalong84 ! I was actually going to start my own thread when I found this!

Exactly 6 weeks after my D&C (last week), I started spotting - very light bleeding, didn't need to use more than about 2 pantyliners a day which is very unusual for me as I usually get proper bleeding for 3-4 days. I spotted for around 4-5 days before the real bleeding came, but this only lasted tor one day.

Prior to this I ovulated (used OPK), but we didn't try as the Dr told me I still had blood clots (when she scanned me 2 weeks ago) and to hold off 1 period.

I'm now really confused whether this bleeding was 'enough' to shed everything as I've never had period this light before?! So confused 😐 going back for another scan this week to check how it looks like and will be devastated if the Dr says clots still in there as I'd likely need another d&c then 😔

Sorry about your loss 💐

SunStruck · 14/07/2019 03:41

Oh and oh I was 9 weeks when I miscarried I'd that helps (D&C almost 4 weeks later, so this process has been so long 😥)

SunStruck · 14/07/2019 03:42

Sorry @Laceygabriella didn't realize it was your thread! 😄 replied to @Bumpingalong84!

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