Pregnancy after loss

[KatiePops3]

Hi, I'm new to this so please bare with me! I'm 31 years old and finally engaged. I got told by doctors when I was 15 that I couldn't have children. I accepted that but was with long term partners over the years who wanted to try.....3 miscarriages down the line, I'm still angry they never listened. Now I'm with the love of my life who accepts everything about me but I want to try again.....he doesn't want to as he could lose me in the process - what should I do? X

Hi @KatiePops3 I haven't experienced similar but I couldn't leave you unanswered.

They can now investigate recurring miscarriages so you need to start with your gp. I wish you success.

Please push to be investigated into the recurrent miscarriages if you wish. I have had three but not consecutive (had a baby after the first one but two since my daughter was born)
After my third miscarriage the gynae said because the 3 weren't consecutive then they wouldn't investigate as the prerequisite is 3 consecutive.
Push for tests and scans at a fertility clinic. So sorry you have experienced this loss. Take care x