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How the fuck do I do this?

7 replies

MamaIn2019 · 25/11/2018 09:41

Been trying for over two years and we finally did it, we cautiously celebrated, told a handful of close family and friends. It's over. It's already fucking over. I've never felt so low my heart is shattered and I don't understand how I do this

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MamaIn2019 · 25/11/2018 10:23

Does anybody know how to get through this please I need help

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GlitteryFluff · 25/11/2018 13:55

I've no advice but I'm bumping your thread for you.
I'm sorry. Thanks

Clearthinking · 25/11/2018 14:00

You don't get over this. You never will. It hurts. It hurts like hell. BUT you did it. Cling onto that. I lost one in Oct 2013 then fell pregnant 3 months after having a miscarriage. I heard (right or wrongly) you could be quite fertile after this. Worked for someone I know, she just cracked on and next month she was pregnant. I'm so sorry for your loss.

ernjas · 25/11/2018 20:26

So sorry for your loss. Thanks

mommybear1 · 25/11/2018 20:40

So so sorry OP Thanks

ImogenTubbs · 25/11/2018 21:00

I'm so sorry OP. I've been through something similar recently. It's horrible and completely unfair. There is nothing to be done but be kind to yourself and each other and, if you want to, keep trying. Thanks

Talkwhilstyouwalk · 25/11/2018 23:13

I've been there. It's utter shite. I'm so sorry. I found that time is a great healer. And it's important to hold on to hope, you can get pregnant and each month of trying there is a chance you will get pregnant again. Please know that you are not alone. Miscarriage is one of the loneliest experiences as no one talks about them, but sadly they are very commonThanks

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