I have a five year old daughter from a previous relationship. me and my husband have been trying for a baby for 3 years and within that time I've had four miscarriages. my doctors have said that I'm on the waiting list to be seen and tested. i found out yesterday that I'm pregnant and I'm dreading going through the same thing. I'm not sure whether to go and see a doctor or a midwife as I feel I may go through the same as before.