What do I do?

[mel0609]

Hi everyone,

Lost my little bean 2 weeks ago, things still don't feel to right. I keep having dark moments. Work is stressful and I can't keep up with everything right now how do I even comprehend what's happened? Hows everyone else dealt/dealing with this?

I'm so sorry you are going through this OP. It's so shit. I'm currently going through a mc and also really struggling with it all. Have you seen your GP? You need time so maybe get signed off from work if you need some space. It is still so soon after your loss so will still be raw. Nothing anyone can say will make it better. You need to take time out for you. Hope you have good support around you and you will one day feel better

Atleast I'm not the only one going through this, feel as if I am even tho I know tons of women go through this everyday. I have been to the GP and I had a week off, I started back at work on Tuesday and as a support worker I deal with a lot (my first day back I got beat up). Work haven't helped what so ever and I can't afford to have anytime off. It is still very raw but all my support tree keeps saying is that it happened for a reason! What hurts is I don't know the reason and never will. This is my 2nd MC aswell within a year and I'm loosing all faith now. I am here tho if you need someone to talk to

It does feel very lonely going through this. Even if you have loved ones supporting you it's not their baby that's been lost or their body going through it all. I absolutely understand needing a reason and it's upsetting when people make comments like that, it's unhelpful. I also am finding myself wanting answers but I am being told the same ........ Just can't be explained and no-one knows why these things happen. I'm so sorry it's your 2nd mc and really hope you don't have a third