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MMC today, just need a handhold

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MrsRaymondReddington · 19/01/2018 22:06

We were TTC for 7 months and for my BFP on Christmas Day. I lost the baby today. DP is awful in any sort of situation like this. He's done his best though. I hadn't told anyone I was pregnant, only MN. We have a beautiful DD so I'm very lucky, but I just feel so broken.

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Oooocrikeyitscold · 19/01/2018 22:09

I’ve been there twice and it is heart breaking. I am so sorry for your loss. I found my DS really got me through it (he was 18 months at the time). I have now gone on to have a DD and as you have successfully had a DD I am sure you will have another DC. My thoughts and prayers are with you

MrsRaymondReddington · 19/01/2018 22:22

Thank you. I've deactivated my Facebook because it's all baby, parenting and pregnancy groups. DP says we have all we need with our DD. I'm worried he won't want to try again. He thinks this has happened because of my age. I knew something wasn't right and I convinced myself this was going to happen.

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Oooocrikeyitscold · 20/01/2018 01:57

I was so anxious with my last pregnancy with DD, I was convinced it was going to end as the other two did-luckily I was wrong. Give your husband time to grieve also, his probably struggling right now with his emotions and wondering why you would both put yourself through this (I almost gave up on Second baby).
Take some time to recover and then make the decision together.

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