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MsConfused12 · 05/03/2017 01:25

Hi ladies
I recently found out that I just suffered a second miscarriage a few days ago (first one was almost two years ago)
My OB is amazing, she did my first d &c and it went well. But after my appointment with her the other day I met with a surjury scheduler and she set up for me to get surjury this Tuesday, but its with another OB I never met before.
So anyway, I go home later and Google him, and he has so many bad reviews, actually he had the worst reviews out of all the other OB's I'm my city..
So now I'm terrified to get the d&c done by him.
I just kinda hate dealing with doctors offices and how rude people can be sometimes, but I want to call Monday and ask if i can schedule with a different OB, but then most likely if they do allow that I will probably have to wait longer possibly..
Anyone been I'm a similar situation? What would you do ? Any advice or help would be great!
I'm already not feeling well and now anxiety is sky high!!

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highinthesky · 05/03/2017 01:40

Sorry to hear about recent events Sad.

Why don't you say you don't feel comfortable with a male, and ask to be put on a female OBs list instead? That would spare you the embarrassment of expressing your reservations about this individual.

Although I do wonder why a d&c not a hysteroscopy.

highinthesky · 05/03/2017 01:43

Although I am worried that the hospital has not picked up on these poor reviews.

Can you PM me the surgeon's name and location so I can see them for myself?

MsConfused12 · 05/03/2017 01:51

I should have been more clear, this is my second missed miscarriage, I have never heard of a hysteroscopy.

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MsConfused12 · 05/03/2017 01:56

Highinthesky thank you
I just PMed you

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