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Beyond nervous for scan 🙁

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Rebeccaj1985 · 11/12/2016 20:28

Counting down to when I have my scan (Wednesday) and have a sinking feeling I already know what's going to be said, as each day passes I'm more certain that my pregnancy has ended. Bled when I wiped Tuesday but then stopped and gradually everything's gone back to pre pregnancy (boobs) (feeling sick etc) i should be 9 weeks when I have my scan and will be so relieved if I see a little heartbeat but right now I'm not feeling too hopeful! I've had 5 miscarriages so relaxing whilst pregnant is impossible.. looked at private scan and next poss is Tuesday so I'm just aswel wait another 24hours

Makes matters worse that no one knows except OH and My mum, and my sister has her scan tomorrow..

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ninenicknames · 11/12/2016 20:32

Flowers and extreme positive vibes your way xx

duskonthelawn · 11/12/2016 20:35

A small amount of bleeding and symptom loss is common in early pregnancy isn't it? Try not to worry just yet, I know it's easier said than done though. Sending lots of positive vibes 💖

drinkyourmilk · 11/12/2016 20:36

Flowers that's utterly shit, I'm so sorry you've had so many miscarriages.
My symptoms were variable and went for nearly 3 weeks, so it is possible everything is OK.
I'm desperately hoping it all works out well.

gottachangethename1 · 11/12/2016 20:41

Thinking of you op. Been there and got several T-shirts. Sending positive vibes your way.

Rebeccaj1985 · 13/12/2016 20:16

Well tomorrow afternoon is D-Day! Fingers crossed it all goes well and that will help me relax for a few days, cos sometimes even seeing that everything's ok is only enough to get you through the next few days or weeks until you feel there's something else to be worried about.
Thank you all for taking your time to reply and for all your positive wishes really appreciate it ❤️😘

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phoebe2016 · 14/12/2016 14:57

Hope all is well with your scan today x

Rebeccaj1985 · 14/12/2016 15:28

Had my scan and I'm 9w2days and baby has heartbeat, so relieved 😌.. thank you for asking phoebe x

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INeedNewShoes · 14/12/2016 15:33

Great news Rebecca Smile

The worrying does lessen slightly with each week that passes, but builds again approaching each scan. Hopefully things will feel easier for you for a little while now Flowers

phoebe2016 · 14/12/2016 18:49

That's really great news Rebecca! :) i felt the ssme as you before my scan, convinced there would be nothing there or bad news but i was lucky too. Hope you can relax a bit now x

Rebeccaj1985 · 14/12/2016 19:08

That's what I am hoping that I can go a few days without worrying I'm not holding out much hope but I'm going to try for sure!
Hope you both manage to relax now too and Congratulations x

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drinkyourmilk · 15/12/2016 08:38

That's fantastic news! I'm so pleased for you.
I started to relax after my 20 week scan, and got through by having a private scan every 3 weeks.

Time passes so slowly in the first trimester, but it gets better I promise!

ninjapants · 15/12/2016 08:45

So glad everything is ok op. I had a similar experience. Had pregnancy losses before, each time presenting in the same way, though different types of loss (miscarriage, ectopic) then experienced the same symptoms when pregnant with DS. Was beside myself with worry but all was well and continued to be. Try to put your worries to one side and tell yourself everything is going just fine Flowers

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