Need to scream why

[EllieJayJay]

I want to kick and scream and yell why..

And you ladies who supported us

ARE BLOODY BRILLIANT!!

We need a thread for miscarriage X

That's for hope

Ellie, I am so sad for you and for anyone who has lost a much longed for baby. Your grief is so raw. Please know MN is open 24 hours a day, with some really lovely women who will listen and hold your hand. Please write whatever and whenever you need to about losing your little one, maybe it will help. I will be thinking about you..

Ellie we are here for each other - I know what you mean when you say nobody who hasn't been through it could possibly understand. Even my oh keeps telling me that it wasn't meant to be, because they found something wrong on the scan with my baby after he had died. But he was meant to be, he was my baby he is my baby I miss him. I feel
Empty

Sorry for your loss. A lot of well meaning people say things that are upsetting at times like this, a combination of not really understanding and not knowing what to say. I lost a baby at the same stage as you 3 years ago and did find people saying 'it happened to me too' helpful, if you tell people IRL you'll probably find a lot of people around you who have been affected.
Look after yourself'.

Hi Ellie , how r u today?

Bless you ladies who have to go through this it is utterly devastating and heartbreaking and I feel your pain through your words it just hurts so very very much

We can get through this we really can xx I'm sending lots of strength and love to you all and I'm so sorry for my very public meltdown I've been holding it all in and it all came gushing out X

Thank you everyone xx

Bless you Ellie. Sending huge hugs. I know the pain well.

I got so fed up with people who hadn't ever experienced a loss saying "it's natures way" or "nature was being cruel to be kind". Noubt kind about making me wait until 20 weeks to lose my little girl. Grrrrhhhh.

Anger is normal so please feel free to be angry.

Ellie - so sorry that you went through so much pain. I miscarried last Tuesday after a scan on Monday showed the baby had died 3 weeks earlier. I was 11+6. How are you doing now? Xxx