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4 months ttc after miscarriage

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DancingAngel15 · 29/10/2015 00:06

Hi I am trying to get pregnant after having a miscarriage at 10weeks in June .
I tried immediately after all bleeding stopped & month after month no luck !
I am using ovia app on my phone & tracking my fertile days using clear blue ovulation kit!
Has anyone got pregnant again after miscarriage can you please let me know ?
I haven't been back to my gp & the early pregnancy unit did not give me any information I had to ask for a booklet !
I'm 24years old & I have no one to speak about this too except for my boyfriend !
I have a newborn neice & being around her Is really hard as its my younger brothers baby & I'm happy for him but I think I'm jealous also !!
We finally got pregnant after 5 years together ! So it's broken my heart into pieces !
Not a day goes by I don't think of my short lived happiness !

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LittleWhale · 29/10/2015 10:54

Hi DancingAngel, so sorry for your loss. It took me 4 months to conceive again after a miscarriage, and I also found it really hard to be around other people's babies. I tracked my cycle and found that it was different than before - I actually put this down to the stress of the situation and the desperation to conceive again that were throwing things out of kilter. So please first and foremost try to take care of yourself and your boyfriend too, and I'm sure the rest will follow. Good luck x

ServingSuggestion · 30/10/2015 06:13

Sorry for your loss. It took me four months after mc too. The Clear Blue dual fertility monitor worked for me - BFP first month of using it. Maybe give something like that a go?

Luckystar1 · 30/10/2015 06:22

I was 4 months after MMC too. I'm not saying that 4 is the magic number, but don't give up. It is very, very hard, I know, but you have to believe it will happen!

Good luck and go easy on yourself Flowers

5hell · 30/10/2015 14:19

Sorry for your loss OP and sorry you dont have anyone except your bf to talk to IRL. I had a mc earlier this year and am now 18w pregnant (and terrified naturally), I got pg again 3 months after mc.

Sometimes you hear that we're meant to be extra-fertile after a mc, but I'm not sure that's a v helpful comment for most women, as its certainly not guaranteed! Everything is raw and difficult after a mc - the week mine started a friend at work announced her accidental pregnancy (sometimes you couldn't make this shit up!)

If you have a sympathetic GP you could make an appointment to just talk through things post-mc, your fertility generally etc...have you been ttc long?

Good luck Flowers

DancingAngel15 · 12/11/2015 12:59

Thank you so much for the lovely comments back !
I have spoke to two friends about it in August !
I have been taking the pregnacare conception tablets .
I took two weeks worth before my period came bang on time but it was extremely heavy almost reminding me of MC bleeding but it only lasted three days where usually it would last at least 5-6 but I am putting it down to the tablets as my body is probably trying to get used to them !
I am using the ovulation sticks also !
My friend whom knew but couldn't wait to tell me as a friend that she is expecting I am so happy for her but I just wanted to break down & cry ! I'm not jealous it's just I want that happiness too !
I've been upset over it two days now ! I don't want to distance myself from her either.

I'm past the 4 month mark :-(
Im rolling into the 5th ;-) so hopefully this month !

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