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ectopic pregnancy then missed miscarriage

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Jellyjam3 · 05/10/2015 20:19

Okay so...

Iim hoping you ladies can help me.
I already have a three year old son.Smile
But just over a year ago I had an ectopic pregnancy, no tubes were removed thankfully and the methotrexate injection was used.
Nearly a year of trying to conceive again I fell pregnant in August, I went for an early scan last Monday and everything seemed to be well although the sonogropher could not find a heart beat but said this was because it was still too early as I was only measuring 5weeks, so I was booked in for another scan in a weeks time. (Today)
Saturday morning I started to bleed bright red fresh blood and passed some small clots (sorry tmi) I went to A&E and the docs said my cervix was closed so I wasn't having a miscarriage or actively bleeding (I was). So I was sent home and had to wait for today's scan. Today's scan showed that there was no heartbeat and I am having a missed miscarriage, I've opted for the D and C which is on Wednesday.

Getting to the point... I am just so confused,angry, hurt, frustrated and all of the above! Has anyone else experienced the same? Had a healthy normal pregnancy and then struggled years down the line.
Tia!

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iloveberries · 12/10/2015 12:57

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iloveberries · 12/10/2015 13:00

My heart goes out to you.

I have a 5.5y/o DS and 3.5yrs ago had an ectopic and tube removed.

I conceived in April 2015 to go onto have a MMC in June 2015.

It is so shit. I am so blessed with DS but I ache for a sibling for him and have basically been TTC for 4 years now.

I have no advice but you are not alone and I am here if you want to talk x

pocketsized · 12/10/2015 13:08

I'm sorry that you are going through this. Not interested same order but I had a MMC at 13 weeks, followed by an ectopic that was treated by methotrexate. I now have a 6mo DD, the healthy result of my 3rd pregnancy.

iloveberries · 13/10/2015 08:22

How are you jellyjam?

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