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Due date

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butterflyFairy1 · 20/04/2015 14:05

I had a miscarriage in Oct 2014 at 11wks... Today would've been my due date :(

Don't even know how I'm feeling to be honest. I feel numb, as I should (round about now) have my baby in my arms.

Just needed to get it out there as many people I know don't know what I went through.

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MelonMelon · 20/04/2015 14:11

Butterfly I'm sending you the best

My due date was 2nd April so I know how you must be feeling today. Personally what helped me was sending a donation to the miscarriage association. I felt like I was doing something positive on such a negative day.

I hope you get your rainbow soon. I'm still ttc but feeling a lot calmer now that big date has passed Flowers

butterflyFairy1 · 20/04/2015 14:24

Thank you Melon.

It's horrible isn't it... I never thought I could grieve so much for someone I hadn't met. I think I'm going to give a donation to the Miscarriage Association. It seems like a good idea, and as you said, doing something positive on a negative day.

Thank you... Wishing you the best of luck in your TTC journey. Flowers

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Blueskies80 · 20/04/2015 14:26

Hi butterfly
So sorry about that- it's so hard when in real life you feel you can't talk about what you went through, do you have a friend or family member you can talk to?
I had a mc at 11 weeks Thursday last week and I know that in early nov when baby would have been due I will be sad. I was meant to have my 12 week scan this Thursday. :(
With you xxx

babyangelbean20315 · 21/04/2015 09:01

Sorry for your loss I no how u feel my baby would be a month and a day old today, it's a horrible feeling that no one can fix, my friend bought me a rose Bush to plant so I have some pyschical memory not jus head n heart ones, it has helped and its gave me something different to focus on n I'm not someone who likes gardening, something like this might help, sorry again xxxx

Brummiegirl15 · 21/04/2015 20:32

Butterfly I'm so sorry. I've had 3 x mc's in the past year and gone past 2 due dates with 1 more to come.

They are so hard and I'm dreading due date number 3. I desperately want to be pregnant again for due date number 3.

Big hugs Flowers xx

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