I'm 36. The first was a missed m/c discovered at 14 weeks, measuring 8. I had an ERPC at 16 weeks. I waited a cycles and conceived again on the next cycle but had a natural m/c at 6 weeks.
I'm in Ireland, I think it's probably the same procedure in the UK, but they don't investigate recurrent m/c here until you've had 3. I wasn't prepared to wait. After my first m/c I did a lot of research, started temping and found that I didn't get much of a temp shift and had a short luteal phase. Through my research I came across a fertility clinic that didn't require 3 m/c's to investigate and booked in literally as I was having my second m/c.
I had day 3 and peak + 7 bloods take and discovered I was low in progesterone. I also had/have a tilted uterus. I did 3 cycles with Clomid, HCG injections and follicle tracking but nothing happened. Both other time I fell pregnant first month trying so that was a bit of a departure.
I changed to Femara, conceived on my first cycle and held on to that pregnancy. That was 5 years ago.
We decided to try again recently. I had peak + 7 bloods taken about 2 years ago which had come back normal and my short luteal phase had seemed to have corrected itself so we decided to give it a go, knowing that it could end up with a m/c but my GP had prescribed progesterone support so we thought we had all bases covered.
Well it was not to be and we lost this one at 10 weeks measuring 7. So here we are again. I'm booked back in to the fertility clinic. I should hopefully have had a full cycle since then and peak + 7 bloods so will know exactly what my levels are at that stage.
I'm a bit concerned that the progesterone didn't do it's job. The hospital are doing the genetic testing on the products of conception and will call me back to discuss, also probably in February and I don't know what direction they will take if it returns as hormonal as the same hospital were very dismissive of me taking progesterone during my pregnancy. I was surprised to get the attention that I did as they normally want 3 m/c's in a row before they make any moves so we will see. Right now I'm at the 'googling like a madwoman and waiting for cycle to get back to normal' stage.
Congratulations on your pregnancy. The terrified stage never leaves I'm afraid, I worried throughout my successful pregnancy and felt a bit robbed that I never got to relax and enjoy it the way other people do - miscarriage does that to you. But I got there, and hopefully so will you. I'd love to hear what support you are getting during this pregnancy.
I don't have any thyroid issues, don't have PCOS, though Clomid did seem to bring on a bit of PCOS. I've never had any other PCOS symptoms and the sonographer showed me my ovaries when scanning for my m/c this time and they were clear though she did say it wasn't the best time to be looking for PCOS. I've always had a regular 28 day cycle.
Thanks to everyone for the warm welcome.