Obsessing

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dildoos · 30/01/2014 19:43

I am obsessing about bring pregnant, it is the first and last thing I think about in the day!
I have had 4 mc and undergoing tests but in mean time has anyone any guidance in what I can do to try stop my feelings as some days feeling really miserable.
Please do join me for some mental support x

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Katiejon · 30/01/2014 21:51

Hi.
Try speaking with the Miscarriage Association.
I spoke with someone there on the telephone for days after I miscarried.

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dildoos · 31/01/2014 08:09

ThAnkyou Katie will call them now

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Katiejon · 31/01/2014 08:38

Let me know how you get on.
Miscarrying is horrible.
I had a mmc in between dd and ds.

squizita · 31/01/2014 11:42

I agree about the helpline. It really helped.

I know it's a personal choice but I'd advise not to be tempted to get pregnant during testing. My tests came up with a treatable condition which, undetected, cause almost certain loss - treated, well over 50% chance of success per pregnancy. SO glad I learned that before I next conceived.

duvetheaven · 03/02/2014 23:16

squizita do you you mind me asking if your testing was the nhs testing ?
dildoos - so sorry to hear of your 4 mc's. I think it is not uncommon to be in the position of thinking about pregnancy. In the past I used to plan a 10 k or 20 k race as somehing to focus on and plan for whilst I was 'resting' in between Mc's. I find it also stopped people enquiring about pregnancy plans. I found acupuncture worked for me. Are you interested in any of the alternative therapies even just to have a pampering treat? Good luck

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