At 39 I had fertility treatment for dodgy ovulation - and then had three miscarriages in a row. It was a miserable, miserable time. I then got pregnant again ...... no miscarriage ..... but went into labour at 7 months.
That 'baby' is now 13 and a dead-set normal stroppy-arsed teenager.
Keep going ladies. Dont you ever give up hope. That baby is waiting for you - you will get there. Just keep going.