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Tia2005 · 26/11/2013 17:54

I'm going through a miscarrage I was 5w I feel so sad no one nos I was pregnent only to father and he don't wanna no he told me to have a abortion and I thought about it for about 1 second but I wanted this baby do much it's my fault I had a miscarrage because I thought about it but this was my baby I wanted it so much I just feel so low it's all I can think about

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Smartiepants79 · 26/11/2013 17:58

It is NOT your fault in any way. Sadly this happens a lot in the early weeks. I know that doesn't make it easier but please don't blame yourself. Is there no one you can tell?

HomeIsWhereTheHeartIs · 26/11/2013 18:04

Hi sorry I can't really offer any help but have you looked here: www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk/support/how-we-can-help/

Bakingtins · 26/11/2013 18:48

Not your fault. Considering an abortion doesn't make you miscarry any more than wishing to stay pregnant makes it so.

WaitingForPeterWimsey · 26/11/2013 18:55

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Tia2005 · 26/11/2013 19:39

Hi thanks everyone
I wouldn't want to tell my mum as she's not well she lost her mum in jan and still finding it hard :( as for my sister she lives away and we don't really talk much I just feel so alone and sad

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WaitingForPeterWimsey · 26/11/2013 19:43

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Tia2005 · 26/11/2013 19:45

I'm 30 I have a 8 year old daughter .

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Forester · 26/11/2013 19:54

So sorry for you Flowers

Please do tell you mum if you think it would help - I'm sure she wouldn't want you to be suffering alone.

Tia2005 · 26/11/2013 20:07

Thanks but to be honest it wouldn't help telling my mum ??

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