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Not again...

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BonnieBeaumont · 24/07/2013 23:49

We lost the twins we were expecting last November and have been ttc ever since so we were thrilled to get a bfp again on Father's Day in June. We had a 'reassurance' scan last Saturday and couldn't believe it when we saw 2 sacs again. One measured a little smaller than the other and didn't have a hb but the other's heart was beating so strongly... On Monday I had a huge bleed and today it was confirmed that they are both gone. I've lost 4 babies now and I'm just so sad! Hmm

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MrsGSR · 25/07/2013 00:05

I'm so sorry :( Flowers

escorpion · 25/07/2013 00:07

So sorry for your loss Bonnie, I have lost two now in six months and that is bad enough, can´t imagine loosing twins twice. Sending you lots of love and hugs x

scousepie · 25/07/2013 00:09

I am so sorry. Life really isn't fair sometimes. I hope you're being supported.

charitymum · 25/07/2013 00:25

I'm so sorry. It's horrible.

When you are feeling a little stronger would you consider asking for a
referral to specialist to run tests to see of they can find out why it's happening. Sometimes they can't tell reason but when they can it can often be addressed.

Take care.

WibWoo · 25/07/2013 06:00

I'm so, so sorry.
I can't imagine the pain you are feeling right now.
I have had one miscarriage and am struggling to cope with the emotions I feel from that experience. Loosing four babies seems overwhelming.
I hope you can get lots of love and support. Sending you lots of hugs and healing.

Bakingtins · 25/07/2013 08:00

I'm so sorry, Bonnie you must be devastated.

BonnieBeaumont · 26/07/2013 10:41

Thank you all so much! I'm feeling more positive today as I've made an appointment with a private fertility consultant and I has the most wonderful news yesterday: my friend's 5th round of IVF was successful! x

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HumphreyCobbler · 26/07/2013 10:45

Oh Bonnie, I am so sorry. How awful. I am glad to hear that you have an appointment though.

And how nice of you to feels so positive for your friend, I am afraid I was never able to be that gracious.

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