A year ago today

[FoofFighter]

Lost my little Widget

Love you always

Sending you love xx

So sorry. Hope you have some RL support x

xxx

nobody has remembered, not even my oh. Feel strange being upset when I have a baby kicking away in my stomach, would like it to go away just for today so I can think in peace if that makes sense?

Bless you. My anniversary will be 14th February of all days. Not sure how I am going to handle it to be honest. My DH didn´t understand how much it affected me until I hysterically wept one day. Is there something you could do to commemorate? Or write your thoughts down? x

I just wanted to add it is hard as other people do forget with time, and it hurts so I know how you feel. I think my DH became detached very quickly from the situation. I think people think once it is over we are just going to get on with it. But everyone deals with it in different ways.

I'd understand him forgetting in time, but not this first one we had a row this afternoon (his fault entirely I might add) and he left me on my own in town.
anyway when I got home I said in case you forgot it's today, then went to bed in tears and he didn't bother to come and comfort me. Sat and played COD. Really not impressed I have to say.

thank you for talking to me x

Oh Foof, just saw this :( thoughts are with you. You know where we all are if you want to talk. All the unmumsnetty hugs I can muster are sent for you. xxx

Thats really crappy then hun that your DP is acting in this way, I am so so sorry. Talk to us about it all you like.

I'm sorry Foof :(

It's mine on Monday. I don't expect dp to remember, I don't expect anyone to remember.

Thanks all, feeling better today although things are still frosty.

Stacey I know but everyone is so happy I don't want to bring it down which is why I didn't mention it, not that I didn't think I wouldn't be supported xx
Jodidi I was also thinking of all our sad little group of sacked Nov 12's who will be in this position right about now sending love and hugs to you for tomorrow

Schooldidi Hope you're okay today x

Thanks for your concern Lady. I'm fine I think. I've been busy all day, took the kids out for the morning with friends, then my parents came and collected both dds for a sleepover, then went for a walk, now we're having a cosy quiet evening without any children.

Nobody else has remembered that it's a year ago today, but that's ok, it's not really their grief.

Hey foof. Hope you ok. Haven't been on this board for months but like you the mc anniversary is coming up and was such a sad time. I definitely don't expect dh remember or really care too much if I.reminded him. I think he would feel.for what I went thru with.it all tho.

Glad this one is kicking away for you!

foof & sadly so many others of you, so sorry for the pain you are going through. 1 year today we had our 12+ week scan to be told our baby had stop growing at 7+4 weeks - on Wednesday will be a year that I laid my precious baby to rest.
Spent this weekend in tears, yet feeling so blessed for my baby who is kicking & growing inside me x
My thoughts, love & prayers are with you all x