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[Louise47]

Hi I just want to no if anyone else is feeling the way I am at the min. I'm 26 and had 4 mc. I am suffering with depression now but my last mc was a year ago. I have bin told this will probably happen for the rest of my life. I just don't understand y I'm feeling like this. Anyone else out there the same? Xx

Didn't want to read & run. So sorry for you going through this. I'm 34 & just had my first. Not sure what future holds. Have you/can you have tests for recurrent miscarriages? Big hug.

Hi Louise,

I am just going through my first mc (it is my first pregnancy), it was a mmc and I have just started medical management and I feel awful, so I can't even begin to imagine how you must feel after having 4.

I can't really offer any advice, but you will get support from this forum which I hope will help. x x x

Hi Louise I'm so sorry you've been through this four times. I'm not sure if you meant you'd been told that you were at risk of further miscarriages or further episodes of depression? Have you had any investigations for recurrent miscarriage? I'm just starting down that road after three losses but hopeful that they will find a reason and that there will be a way to help me, although I know in 50% of cases there is no reason found. I think it would be a strange person indeed who could go through repeated losses and not struggle with their emotions, I expect if you have any tendency towards clinical depression it would tip you that way. Are you getting any help or counselling? Don't suffer in silence, there is a lot that could be being done to help you move forward.

Just wanted to offer my support Louise I have been through this once and that was heartbreaing enough, so can only begin to imagine what you are going through. I hope you can find some comfort in this forum, it has been of great help to me and there are some AMAZING ladies here. Thinking about you hun x