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Sex after miscarriage

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MrsStewartson · 07/02/2013 02:28

I had a miscarriage Jan 11th of this year. It's been approximately 3 weeks since my bleeding stopped. I was told by a nurse that the general amount of time to wait is 6weeks before being intimate again. My husband and I are really having a hard time waiting it out so I went on the net for some advice. I have seen people say it's ok to have sex once the bleeding stops, 2-3wks, etc. We aren't planning on trying again for now so we'd use protection--would it be safe for us to be intimate now?

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ripsishere · 07/02/2013 02:36

After one of mine, the doctor told me once the bleeding had stopped and we felt comfortable.
Good luck.

MrsStewartson · 07/02/2013 02:52

Thank you for your advice!

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Jules2809 · 09/05/2013 18:27

I had a miscarriage 11 days ago via medical management. The bleeding has almost stopped now. Just have slight brown discharge. My husband and I are late starters and was about to start ivf before we conceived naturally but lost the baby after 9 weeks. We only found out during the 12th week dating scan. We are now ready to start conceiving again. But the nurse told me that once the bleeding has stopped I should do a pregnancy test and tell the nurse of the result. I did one this morning and it is positive. Should we still have sex or should we wait a few days and do another test to make sure it is negative. We are keen to conceive. Any advice?

ChocolateCremeEggBag · 10/05/2013 06:52

If you are not actively trying, then use protection as you can get pg straight after mc without having an AF in between

I think the advice about waiting is as much for your emotional recovery as physically once you've stopped bleeding you are pretty much good to go (so to speak)

Branleuse · 10/05/2013 07:23

whenever you feel ready x

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