2nd loss at 5 weeks

[Sophiaarya]

As I write this I feel so alone. 2nd mc. DH walked out and said he can't support me again. He said its my fault for going to dentist yesterday (I have a phobia and was v scared). Feel sad at loss but more so at lack of support from DH. What have I done to deserve this?

I don't know what to say right now, but I'll hold your hand if you hold mine. Xx

So sorry for your loss. You have done nothing wrong. Going to the dentist will have had no effect on it. I think men find it very hard to deal with, they see their partner so distressed and feel helpless so respond with coldness as they just don't know what to do or say about something that is out of their control. They try to find something to blame.

Just remember you did nothing wrong, you did nothing to deserve this.

Holding your hand, take care x