Sadly I am going through a miscarriage.
My hospital have been very good, they have done a scan and bloods. I know where I stand (luckily because my pains were more on one side than the other so I had ectopic fears) which although sad means I feel reassured I'm not going to collapse in agony. I had a scan...nothing there and ovaries/tubes normal (some wind fuzzing the view of the left ovary) - double checked with bloods thurs then tues (hcg went from low pregancy to definitely not pregnant over the 4 days). I am now just experiencing what I can only describe as a heavy, horrid period that leaves me tired and spaced out.
People have spoken about the emotional side of things but have been quite open-ended on the TMI stuff like how long will I bleed for (I've had 3 days bleeding - as opposed to spotting), also I have a cramp/period pain and a low pain (like a bruise or mild sprain) towards the front of my abdomen really low down (TMI- almost on my natural 'pubic hair line') which I am wondering is something to do with wee or wind? Or some kind of bruise/sprain? It sounds daft but I dodn't want to ask loads of questions like this in the hospital as I might sound crass or heartless, but although I am so terribly sad I also need to know what's 'normal'.
Hope this makes sense...