Miscarriage note

[DingbatsFur]

To anyone who has recently suffered a miscarriage & wondering if there is hope. This day 6 years ago we had a missed miscarriage confirmed. Seemed like the world was ending. I have just tucked my 5 year old in bed and kissed my 3 year old good night. It can all end well. Wishing you all luck.

Cheers nappymaestro! Glad your story ended well too . I just remember being desperate for happy ending stories of people after a mc when I had mine. Hope it helps someone.

Hi both, a great big hug from me for your kindness in posting your happy ending. I had a mmc mid decemeber with no dc yet and stories of hope really put a spring in my step, thank you

I have had two MCs at six weeks and no DC; now 9 weeks and with a reassurance scan booked for Monday. Fingers crossed that one day I will be leaving a lovely note like this for people in this position. Thanks for posting it has made me smile :)

I had a mc in dec 09 and now have a 13 month old ds

thank you for this thread. My first pregnancy just ended with a missed mc at 20 weeks. It is so hard to hang on to the hope of having a little one, and your posts really have helped me. Bless you

For once what a lovely thread, really made me smile.

I to had a MMC, discovered at 12 weeks. Second pregnancy was just as turbulent but I now have a beautiful six month old DD.

Good luck to everyone currently ttc, it can happen for you to xxx

Thank you for posting this. I have just suffered a mmc after a year of ttc and I can't tell you how much this means to me xxx

Thank you for your posting of success stories. It really helps me to know there can be happy endings after mc. Can't tell you how much hope this gives me for the future x

This is great to hear peoples good stories.
Thankyou so much xxx

What a lovely idea. Well done OP.

My first baby would have been one last month. I sat in the garden and had a little cry on what would have been his birthday. Then I came inside, gathered up my six month old and gave him the biggest cuddle ever.

He's curled up in bed snoring his little head off now. I can't imagine life without him but if I hadn't miscarried he wouldn't exist.

I hope that helps give others some hope

thankyou so much for such a lovely thread. been ttc for over 5 years. miscarriage last march at 8.5 weeks. no dc yet. not a hint of a bfp. but your success stories are very hope giving, so thank you. x

Thank you

I needed this today.

Thankyou Dingbat It's great to hear a positive story.

This thread is making me well up.

I had a MMC in October 2005. I had been so excited for the 6 weeks between getting the positive test and the awful day of the scan. We didn't see it coming. The next few months were the hardest of my life. Everyone around me seemed to be having babies, I didn't think it would ever happen for me.

I now have 2 beautiful DD s who are 5 and 1, and am presently cuddling my wonderful surprise DS who is 7 weeks old today.

The very best of luck to all of you still waiting for your happy endings

thank you it's so good to hear things like this

Can I add a note of hope too? I had 3 early mcs and then ds now 6 and then 2 more mcs and then dd 2. Not planning on trying again though!

Did you all conceive naturally or with medical investigations/assistance?

I conceived naturally but did have the full battery of tests, once before ds was born and once after when it all started happening again. They never found anything wrong. With my dd I took low dose aspirin. I feel very lucky that my local hospital has a great epau, which I could self refer to and also a recurrent misscarriage unit with a lovely consultant.