I just joined mumsnet as a mother of a teenager i also have a 25 year old dd.I was intersested to see this subject covered as i suffered 5 mcs over the years and all your comments ladies were relevant to how i felt and it seems still its quite taboo even on television there is not a great deal talked about the subject even in the climate of the more contravercial the better. It true that some of you said just because you have a 12 week early mc you feel like a fraud.My first two were very disstressing messy and painful and my first was the week before xmas and i still think about it 29 years later. Its a great loss and you haver to go back to the begining and start again not knowing wether it will happen again.I hope all you ladies are ok it turned out fine for me in the end so keep positive and dont underestimate what you have been through however any one else makes you feel xx