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3rd miscarriage and no end in sight

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cher31 · 30/11/2011 20:44

I am 11 weeks pregnant since LMP. I have had 3 scans all showing an empty sac that is irregular in shape but is very slowly growing. Keep being booked in by docs for Erpc and then for it to be cancelled by consultant. Have now arranged childcare and overnight bag twice. I'm now bleeding and in pain but still being told that despite these factors there is still a chance??? Just want it all over

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wellieboots · 01/12/2011 10:45

So sorry for what is happening to you :(

Have they told you what the next steps are and when they will allow you to have ERPC if you need/want it?

take caer xx

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cher31 · 01/12/2011 18:50

Am due to go back on Monday if I don't miscarry naturally before then. The pain is really building now so not sure how long I'll cope. Feeling v sorry for myself and just wish someone could wrap me up and take care. Thanks for your reply x

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wellieboots · 02/12/2011 00:51

Do you have someone to take care of you at home? If not can you call someone ? Really hope you are as OK as you can be xx

wellieboots · 02/12/2011 00:53

And don't hesitate to go to a&e if it gets really bad and you can't manage the pain xx

Yourefired · 02/12/2011 00:53

So sorry, I've been there. Horrible situation. Take care of yourself.

glitterbug18 · 03/12/2011 00:12

So sorry, hope you manage to get some rest and the pain/discomfort eases up. Take care and hope you've got support to help you through, x

Gorgeousbubba · 03/12/2011 01:34

How awful that your just expected to deal with it by yourself. If the pain gets too bad get to the hospital- you shouldn't have to cope with it like that. Take care xxx

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cher31 · 03/12/2011 17:34

Thank you for all your kind words. My partner is taking very good care of me and Mum is ready to look after my little madam at the drop of a hat. Very lucky really. Pains have subsided as has the bleeding although it never progressed past brown spotting. Hope I don't miscarry before the ERPC as really need to have the tissue analysed. Feel v sad today as I'm officially 12 weeks pregnant but obviously won't be celebrating as it will all be over on Mon. Almost feel like burying my head in the sand esp as still showing strongly pregnant on pregnancy tests.

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cher31 · 07/12/2011 17:46

Update. Had a final scan on Monday that confirmed my fears. Had an ERPC that day and came home on Tuesday. Waiting to hear back from Docs as there is some confusion as to what happened to the 'pregnancy product' may not have been sent for testing even though I was constantly reassured it would beAngry
The ERPC was ok although I didn't expect to have every bodily hole invadedBlush
Thank you for your support

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