Counselling after miscarriage?

[arfur]

A good friend of mine is (understandably) struggling to come to terms with three miscarriages following a care-free first pregnancy with her DD who is now 2. She hasnt been offered any counselling and I wondered if any of you knew of anything I could pass on to her. I have suggested coming on here but its not her style. Any advice appreciated.

miscarrtage association. they have lots of phone support contacts you can ring. wd personally recommend it - 3 mcs after dd1 myself. also will get you link to st mary's recrrent mc clinic. web page has reassuring stats.

stmarys

Thanks very much - I will pass it on.

arfur,
try and get your freind to come onto mumsnet and just check out what we are all about. It is a bit awkward at first but then it becomes easier to talk as people on here are genuinly supportive and most have experienced the same. I have had five m/c in just over 12 months and have been thru counselling etc if she wants someone to chat to I am here. You can find me on the TTC thread.

Best of luck

If she is up north, Liverpool Women's Hospital also have a recurrent miscarriage clinic.

I contacted the miscarriage association and it made me more depressed as the councellor was a lady that had never been able to have children and I felt she was comparing my situation to hers and I really didnt want to hear that I may never be able to have children. as it was I had 2 healthy girls in the end. but just beware who is councelling I would say.