Namechanged because it’s outing to those who know me in RL.
I thought my periods had stopped at the age of 54 until I started to bleed with what I thought was a menopausal flood. But then I also thought that the bleeding was just like the miscarriages I had experienced in the past. And then the clots that looked like clusters of grapes arrived.
Long story short I had an unexpected pregnancy coupled/twinned with a molar pregnancy which, because the GP had told me to bleed it out, became septic, although I didn’t realise this until after I’d been admitted to hospital. After the a week in hospital and a D&C the consultant swanned into my room, blithely said “you’ve had a molar pregnancy and this is pre-cancerous so we’ll be referring you to a London hospital for checks and possible chemo” and then disappeared out the door before I could draw breath.
We then went into the first 2020 lockdown so I had to do all the blood tests at home so I would have a cry every time the packet from oncology arrived once a month, this and trying to hide it from my kids who had come home for lockdown.
Anyway, everything is fine but I urge you to a) keep contraception going while you are still having periods and b) if they stop then do regular pregnancy tests. I’m now 59 and my last period was in August.
It’s coming up to nearly 5 years ago and I’m still traumatised by the whole thing.