I am Scottish, do want to 'gatecrash', and live in Northern Ireland (not one of the 'southerners' you mentioned - but like them all depends on if I am around at the right time!).
Anyways, brave on you for trying to get this up and running, JanZ. Really hope something comes of it (even if I can't manage).
Mind you, if all else fails, you could always organise a day trip over here (? shopping in Belfast...). Sorry.....gone off the thread a bit.....I know, I know it's a Central Belt meet-up....only thinking out loud.......forgive me......please.
A tad nervous Mears? A timid midwife - surely not.
Throw caution to the wind all you "lurkers", life is for living, so what if folks don't all like each other or agree, that's the beauty of diversity. It would be boring if we did.
Best wishes for an 'Agreement'.