@Pinkelefant in answer to your question....I was that annoying person who ate whatever they wanted and never put weight on, and lost weight with every pregnancy. It was only when I hit perimenopause that I realised I could no longer do this, and started to develop that awful midlife spare tyre.
So I've never been massively overweight, but have been low-carbing to a varying degree since 2010 (in fact, that and Couch25k were the reasons i first joined MN). I was always careful not to frame things in a way that made the DCs conscious of weight loss etc. and I always felt like I was setting a good example regardless....we maintained a tradition throughout their childhood and beyond of sitting round a table every evening and eating a healthy home-cooked meal....they just got used to me swerving the rice and having extra veg instead.
Maybe the reason they don't support me low carbing is because I'm not obviously overweight/obese, so they can't see why i bother? I try to explain that I'm not depriving myself, just choosing a slightly alternative way of eating that I enjoy, and that suits me best.... and it really does. Anyway, the DCs have all left home now, and it's gratifying to see that they choose to eat pretty healthily.
Well, we had the salmon laksa this evening, and it was very well received, clean plates all round. I didn't increase the chillies and I'm glad I didn't, because it nearly blew our socks off! Maybe my red chillies were particularly potent? I did succumb to a small glass of rosé, I'm afraid..but just one.
Liking the look of cheeseburger pie. That has DH's name all over it. I bought some beef mince to make meatballs (would use parmesan and egg to bind, instead of breadcrumbs), but I might make that instead.